Recently split up with my long term boyfriend and looking for advice?

If you know he wasn't right for you, then you made a VERY smart decision to leave. Also a very hard one, so you should realize how strong you are. Remind yourself of this every single day. Remind yourself of the things he used to do that made you realize he wasn't the one. It will help a lot. Also, go out and meet new guys. Even if you don't really like them, at least focus on their good qualities. Good luck!